Out of the Broom Closet
April 20th, 2006
I told one of my closest friends in the entire world what I do for a living. You’re probably wondering why this close friend did not know that I was a witch, since it is something that I live daily in my life. My friend lives in Australia and although we have been close (through email, video and phone) we have actually never met in person, though we have known each other for almost ten years.
Thus, my dear friend did not know that I was out of the broom closet.
I told him today.
It was 4 am in Melbourne, Australia, when he called me, 2 pm my time. He couldn’t sleep. He was jazzed about a writing project we are working on together (I may be a witch as a profession, but I still write as a profession too!).
After the shock (only a mild shock as my friend is very open-minded), he went to my site magickrituals.com and saw for the first time what I have been doing on the web for the past few years.
He was characteriscally cool about the whole thing (as I knew he would be), yet he may or may not have totally understood what it means to be a practicing witch. I was clear however that I was not Wiccan, as he well knows I am Buddhist and that kind of confused him.
Telling people what I do is a rarity. You don’t just pop-in to the local coffee-clatch and say oh yeah, I’m a witch. That will get a big cross burnt on your lawn in this neck of the woods.
When people ask me locally what I do for a living, I tell them I have some websites that I run and that I write, both of which are true. I don’t give out the site name of my spell site or of this blog.
My father, although aware of my metaphysical background had no idea what I was doing for a living when I told him about a year ago. His was response was similar as when I told him I became Buddhist. He told me not to sign anything. I tried to convince him that this wasn’t Scientology.
My dear friend in Australia (who already confirmed that he believed me to be quite a kook as it was) thought that in terms of a creative business it was brilliant. I left out the the witchy aspects which I felt from Australia he would have difficulty grasping. Not the dancing naked around a bonfire thing though.
I actually think he would quite well understand that and in fact, probably encourage it!
April 21st, 2006 at 9:40 am
Hello Amita. First of all, let me tell you how much I enjoy your blog.
I am happy for you because you decided to tell your friend that you are a Witch and he seemed ok with it.
Coming out of the broom closet is not an easy thing, especially if there are people who might take what you do for a living the wrong way.
You have been an inspiration to me as your help has helped me bring out my inner creativity and become more motivated in anything I set out to do.
Kudos to you my dear Amita!! You rock!
April 22nd, 2006 at 11:23 pm
Thanks so much Phoebe (one my favorite people!), you have inspiried me too over the past couple of years as well. You have immense compassion and courage.
Being a witch is just who I am. I wish I didn’t have to always tell people and follow it immediately with the fact that I am not a satanist as many people seem to view witches (which I cannot believe int his day and age of the Internet and so much knowledge being available).
Actually many people in the US are very savvy about such things, perhaps they are not in other countries, I don’t know. Though many of my clients come from all over the world - especially India, Hong Kong and from many European countries too. And even many from Australia, where my friend lives.
October 28th, 2007 at 5:44 pm
Thank you so much for posting these, I enjoyed reading them. I’ve always wanted to know more about wicca and pagan religions and their differences and I think you just inspired and motivated me to go and do it!
Thanks
Emily
xox